Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Continuing Bonds With Loved Ones

For those who have lost a loved one, it is normal and can be important in the process of healing to continue a nonphysical relationship and some sort of communication with the person who died.  Letter writing, putting up photos at home, returning to a special place that was important to the deceased and celebrating anniversaries, holidays and birthdays are a few examples. Communication with the deceased can be especially important if the relationship was painful, tumultuous or distant. It is possible to heal relational wounds after death. It is never too late to experience and express emotions toward the person who passed away.

References:
1. Shallcross, Lynne. “A Loss Like No Other.” Counseling Today Jun. 2012: 26-31.
2. http://uncommonground4500.blogspot.com/2010/04/continuing-bonds.html