For those
who have lost a loved one, it is normal and can be important
in the process of healing to continue a nonphysical relationship and some sort
of communication with the person who died.
Letter writing, putting up photos at home, returning to a special place
that was important to the deceased and celebrating anniversaries, holidays and
birthdays are a few examples. Communication with the deceased can be especially
important if the relationship was painful, tumultuous or distant. It is
possible to heal relational wounds after death. It is never too late to
experience and express emotions toward the person who passed away.
References:
1. Shallcross,
Lynne. “A Loss Like No Other.” Counseling Today Jun. 2012: 26-31.
2. http://uncommonground4500.blogspot.com/2010/04/continuing-bonds.html